And in comes the little red head girl from California (if you're a fan of the Peanuts comics like I am, you'll get the reference). My brother met Marissa about a year ago, and have been officially dating since March. I remember when my mom and I were first introduced to her. It was during the Winter Blast from last March when Leelanau County got dumped on with 2 feet of snow in one night and the power and cell towers were out everywhere. We texted Mike a picture of how much snow there was, and how "jealous" he should be of us. He called later that day saying he was at the zoo with Marissa, and put her on the phone to talk with my mom. He also sent a picture later that night, and my mom and I weren't really sure what to think of it.
It was a completely new concept for my brother to have a girlfriend. I don't mean this to be insulting; it is more of the fact that I wasn't use to my brother having a girlfriend he was so smitten with. It was interesting hearing about their dating adventures, especially since Marissa has a large family that is super close. It was also weird that she was calling him her 'Prince Charming'.
Well, after about 8 months in Oakland, Mike finally decided to come back to Leelanau County because he missed his little sister too much (okay he actually came back for a friend's wedding, but I imagine that he missed me too). I wasn't sure what to expect that he wanted Marissa to come and visit our family. This was my first time truly meeting her. She felt like a member of the family immediately. There were some instances where we clicked as if we were actual sisters, even pointing out my brother's cheesy lines to try to impress Marissa! We even went to Mackinac Island as a "family", and she actually tolerated traveling with my family. A good sign so far.
I've also been talking with a lot of my friends about my brother and his girlfriend how smitten they are with each other. I figured my brother was going to ask her to marry him sometime soon, and by soon I mean around the summertime. Much sooner than my parents were expecting. Boy were we wrong.
When I was on Facebook last night, I noticed an ominous status update from my mom on her Facebook (which served as a spoiler alert):
"Dear Facebook Friends - I need your help . . . Where do I buy a mother of the groom dress?"
I figured my mom was trying to get ahead of the game. However, it puzzled me as to why she would post something like this. I called her and she told me the news. Unfortunately my mom spoiled the surprise for me, since Mike was going to call me later that night. Needless to say I was speechless, and pleasantly shocked! I called my brother and talked with my future sister in law as well! All I could say was how happy I was for them and I can't wait for the wedding! I was speechless and like "holy mankind I'm going to have a sister!" I then proceeded to text pretty much everyone in my phone to let them know I was finally going to have a sister.
Based on this picture alone, my brother knows how to pick them. Not only the location, but the ring and of course the girl! Also, wise decision on his part having someone take a photograph; I'm impressed he thought of that! This just proves that although you don't know what God has in store for you, he knows what is best for you and he will not let you down. I wish the very best for both of you, and I can't for Marissa to be a full member of the family. We need more women in the family to balance out the sport watching, hunting crazed men in our family.